In memory of Karen

It's been 2 weeks. 2 very long weeks, since we received the shock news that Steve's nephew found his fiance of 5 years dead in bed after just a few days where the doctor and subsequent hospital visit diagnosed nothing more than tonsillitis. 

We went down to see the family and console Joe at the weekend. It was a tough call, as is any loss, especially when sudden and unexpected.

Having been through it myself 12 years ago when my own partner died I could at least give him some kindly words of advice. Mainly, do whatever feels right, no matter how stupid others may think your ideas are. Take each day in baby steps. Laugh if you want and cry if you want. It's nobody's judgement call but yours.  

Time is a great healer. The knife in your stomach and the pain from your heart being ripped out, does not last forever, no matter how much you feel it will at the time.

Be gently on yourself and take comfort from your family who love and care for you so much.... and friends too....they are important and will help get you through this. And do you know what? You NEVER forget that kindness.

The wheel of the year will turn it's circle. Sometimes it feels too slowly. But almost without trying, one day you will wake up and realise just how far you have come and the suns warmth will be felt on your face once again. 

For the rest of us.....life goes on....

In memory of Karen 1961 - 2012

Please play the video.

It's the most beautiful fitting tribute

to those who have gone before.